Try! I tried to go bra shopping at my mall (um you know a mall in the top 10 largest malls in the country) and they had nothing over DDD. NOTHING. So I ordered from Brastop and they came in a week even tho it ships from the UK. My bras fit so well, yay! » 11/11/14 1:24pm 11/11/14 1:24pm

Yeah for sure some white people will take that as some sort of blank check for acting however they want. A friend of a friend (spoiler alert, he is white) casually dropped the N word in conversation and I was like, um excuse me? And he goes, "Oh don't be shocked, I just talk like that." Then he followed that up with,… » 11/10/14 1:40am 11/10/14 1:40am

This shit is so so tough. I have so many conflicting feelings about it. It reminds me of the issue of aborting a fetus if you know it has a condition that might be difficult for you to handle (e.g. Down's syndrome). It's so fucking able-ist to even think about it but on the other hand you have people who clearly… » 11/07/14 11:16pm 11/07/14 11:16pm

I also have 3 kitties! My favourite one is different everyday. Every so often I announce who is on my "shit list" and who is my favourite, and who is just in the middle. (My fave is usually my lil ginger ragamuffin, sorry other 2 cats!) I'm sorry your kitties are fighting. My cats still fight even after 3 years of… » 11/07/14 11:13pm 11/07/14 11:13pm

When I moved to London, I witnessed a horrifically violent fight outside a tube station within days of arriving, and witnessed a strong arm robbery at a corner shop within a few weeks. But then I never saw anything like that again, so maybe we both just have bad timing? » 11/06/14 6:37pm 11/06/14 6:37pm

Working out is going okay so far! I mainly do cardio with some leg and ab stuff mixed in. Anyone else hate working out their arms? My arms are, to be honest, flabby, and I'd love to tone them up. But I am so loathe to use the stupid machines or free weights because my gym is filled to the brim with 20 something men… » 11/06/14 5:40pm 11/06/14 5:40pm